How to get your husband not to drink alcohol?

The wives of drinking husbands know that it is a great disaster for the whole family. In addition, not only two people who once loved each other suffer, but also their children. All the dreams and plans that were built at the beginning of family life are falling apart. Usually, after several unsuccessful attempts to force her husband not to drink, a woman makes the only right decision in her opinion: to divorce. Don't rush, though, because this person next to you was once kind, cheerful, and caring, which is why you fell in love with him. Precisely because her husband was not always an alcoholic, it is worth trying to help him. There are many ways to get her husband to stop drinking. But first of all, she must determine the cause of this ailment and eliminate it. This is the only way to be sure that any method to combat alcoholism will give the expected result.

Causes of husband's alcoholism

Even when a drinking husband gets so drunk that close people and family are relegated to the background, you should not put an end to that person. By correctly identifying the causes of the disease, addiction can be treated.

Her husband may drink alcohol for the following reasons:

1. Don't underestimate the power of inheritance. If the father of a person suffered from alcoholism, then the probability of this disease is high for him. However, the hereditary factor in itself cannot provoke alcoholism, for this some kind of impetus is needed in the form of problems, problems in the family, the drinking environment.
2. Constant problems in family life. Usually, the wives of the drinking husbands had the same parents, so they unconsciously chose a husband who was already suffering from addiction or had the prerequisites for it to occur. In addition, those same women cause their husbands to crave alcohol with their constant reproaches, eternal control. By depriving the husband of the opportunity to be the head of the family, they push him into the abyss of alcoholism, since it is there that most of these men seek an outlet and a consolation.

3. If your boyfriend or husband cannot fully realize himself, this can lead to addiction. Usually these people repress the feeling of dissatisfaction with life with alcohol, as a result, a harmful desire for alcohol arises.
4. Often times, great pain can be the cause of alcoholism. If the pain for the loss of a loved one or loved one is very strong, then a man, to drown him, can start drinking alcohol.
5. For some men who have a hereditary predisposition to alcoholism, the type of people around them is very important. If your friends or co-workers often drink alcoholic beverages, over time you may become addicted and start drinking vodka regularly.
6. For some people, alcohol is an opportunity to get attention. In general, this type of alcoholism is typical of adolescents, but an adult cannot be an exception.
7. Some men, using alcohol, try to stifle the mental pain that arises from intimate problems or incurable disease.

What can a wife do?

If you want to know how to make her husband stop drinking, you should follow the recommendations below:

• You must not make scandals and reproach your husband. Yelling and fighting will only aggravate the situation.
• At first, you need to be patient and stop paying attention to your husband's alcoholism. Once she is able to accept her condition, it will be easier for you to focus and start looking for the cause of her. Remember everything from the first day of intoxication.
• May the house be always quiet and calm, surround your husband with pampering and attention. If she is not rushing home after work, but she is staying with friends for a drink, let it be warm and cozy at home, smell delicious dinner. This will cause her life partner to rush home after work.
• Show an interest in your spouse's life and work. Discreetly involve you in childcare and household chores. However, it is important to know that repetitive and repetitive work will not help your husband to stop drinking. It is important that her assignments are interesting and distract her from thoughts about alcohol.

• There is no need to persuade him not to drink on the weekends. It is better to organize interesting and rich leisure activities for the whole family yourself. The time you spend together in an entertainment center or outdoors will give your husband positive emotions and help him relax without alcohol. As a result, she will not need to force him not to drink, as he himself will appreciate how good life is without alcohol.
• Before convincing her husband to stop drinking, he must reduce his contacts with drinking friends to nothing. If you are guessing about the upcoming party, distract your spouse from it with a more tempting offer that you can't refuse.
• Although the faithful are persuaded not to drink, it should be remembered that some men drink for lack of hobbies and banal boredom. If he finds an interesting hobby or pastime for her spouse, he will stop drinking himself.

As a general rule, you can persuade her husband not to drink, and you can use our recommendations with common domestic drunkenness or if a person suffers from the first stage of alcoholism. With the help of our tips, you can direct your spouse's attention to other aspects of life, allowing you to forget about addiction. However, if the disease is advanced and has reached more serious stages, it will be very difficult to get a man to stop drinking. In this case, it is better to seek help from specialists.

Rules of conduct with an alcoholic husband

If you want to understand how a wife can make her husband stop drinking without the help of specialists, start with yourself. Your correct behavior will create fertile ground to overcome addiction:

1. Stop being condescending to the faithful and do not solve the problems that have arisen because of his own intoxication. Otherwise, his worry will become ordinary and obligatory for him, and in such a situation, he simply does not want to change anything. Don't make excuses and apologize for their bad behavior from friends and management. He must solve these problems himself, because they arose because of him. No need to put him to bed and undress him if he comes home drunk as a template. Let him sleep anywhere, so that in the morning you can estimate how drunk he was.
2. Often, if a wife tries to force her husband to stop drinking, he blackmails her by leaving her family. Do not pay attention to such threats, because the drinker will simply be afraid of making important cardinal decisions. This is common blackmail, nothing more.
3. Usually the person who makes you stop drinking thinks so often of his drinking partner's needs in life that he forgets himself. Not well. Do not stop taking care of yourself, do your favorite hobbies. This can help increase your spouse's self-respect. Then the drinker will not want to lose his beautiful and confident wife and he can decide for himself to stop drinking.
4. If your spouse has a severe hangover or withdrawal symptoms, he should not buy you a bottle of beer to drink. It is at this point that he has a chance to make her stop drinking. But before persuading your spouse to give up alcohol, offer her help and help get rid of withdrawal with home remedies or medications. In this state, a person will agree to any help and will agree to everything.
5. When the faithful are sober, talk seriously about alcohol addiction treatment. Don't accept their promises to stop drinking on your own. Tell him that you will only stay with him if he begins to recover from the addiction.

Treatment at home

If she has found a way to force her husband not to drink, then she will need help, because at first desire alone is not enough, she must overcome psychological dependence. The following methods can be used to combat addiction:

• Medicine. Even if we are not talking about the injection or blister coding method, you should consult your doctor before taking special alcohol pills or drops. The point is that any drug has its own contraindications. That is why it is so important to know the state of the patient's body. Only a doctor will be able to choose an effective medicine that will help her husband to stop drinking and will not have a negative effect on her body.
• The harshest coding methods involve inserting a vial of a drug under the skin, causing alcohol intolerance or suppressing the feeling of pleasure from drinking an alcoholic beverage. Such coding is done only by a narcologist with the written consent of the patient. The coding period can be from 6 months to 5 years. The procedure can be done three times. If the coding was carried out with a drug that causes alcohol intolerance, then after taking even a small dose of alcohol, the patient may experience serious health problems (up to death).

• Hypnotic coding is suitable for suggestible patients. It is very important that they themselves agree to this procedure and fully trust the doctor. To obtain a long-lasting effect, several sessions will be necessary.
• Popular methods. This includes not only herbal treatment, but also the use of various conspiracies, prayers. For such treatment, you can contact traditional healers or perform procedures and rituals yourself.
• Sometimes acupuncture is used to induce an aversion to alcohol. Due to the impact on the bioactive points, a persistent aversion to alcohol is formed. For treatment, you will need to go through a full course of sessions. This technique is especially effective in preventing relapse.